Blame
Not taking responsibility for yourself, your emotions, your feelings and your actions is a sure way to ensure that you suffer your whole life. As blame goes, I am something of an expert. Blaming was something I learned as a child to survive in toxic and harsh environments. I learnt that it is better to be feared than loved and never to take responsibility; instead− blame! I blamed my parents and other abusive carers for so many problems in my life. I blamed everything and everyone. Blame had become such a habit for me that it was invisible, even though I would dedicate hours of my time to perfecting it.…