Trying to change others – it will make you go mad
It’s silly to try and escape others faults; they are inevitable, Just try to escape your own. (Marcus Aurelius) If you want to go crazy then try changing someone. One of the most frustrating, crazy-making things you can do is try to fix someone − your partner/girlfriend/boyfriend. He or she would be perfect if only she/he would stop drinking/taking drugs, talk to me more, be more respectful, didn’t get so angry, wanted to spend more time with me. What we are saying is that once that person changes then our life/love will be perfect. The wrong attitude is that our love/our lives will be perfect once that person has changed.…