Tricky People II
In our last newsletter we introduced the four gremlins – those roles tricky people take on – not just other people - ourselves too (sometimes): the blamer, the placator, the cold analyser type, the whirlwind. If the blamer gremlin takes you over, it is helpful to do the following: Express that you don’t agree without blaming others.Be aware of your fear and anxiety; don’t reject them, rather explore them with open curiosity. Give your point of view, but also see the bigger picture and express what you need. If you find yourself in placator mode, in order to find the courage to express your opinión, it can be of use:…